Wednesday, June 22, 2005

Am I the bad guy?

Some people never grow out of that middle school drama mode. There is always going to be the caddy girl talk and the little whispers of Gossip, but when do you out grow the lies you say to impress people. I have come to realize in the past few weeks that you may possibly never out grow it, which is very unfortunate. A friend of my fiancé had a girlfriend that I had become very friendly with. She and I would chat while at work to pass the time and what not. Well apparently during our daily conversing we come to find out we are both being told two completely different stories about recent events that have transpired. Now this is my fiancé’s friend and I really do not care too much for him. Out of respect for my fiancé, I am nice to this kid, but really, I would not mind if he was out of our lives forever, but that is a different story. So we confront him this friend/boyfriend, he proceeds to lie to cover up. Immediately I am remind of lectures from my earlier years when my parents explained how one lie snowballs in to many. I painfully admit they were so right. Anyway so he denies denies denies and then proceeds to blame me, saying I am starting this huge drama, and I am over reacting. I explain to him that the two things I hate the most are liars and cheaters and here he is doing both. Now this is not the first time he has lied things have sort of built up inside of me and now this is just the last straw. Well he tells me that I have no reason to stop talking to him and I am making a bigger deal out of this situation than it should be. Well I am confused because he has been lying for the past nine months from small things to major things. Am I wrong for ending my friendship with him? HE lied repeatedly and cheated on his girlfriend my friend. Is it not ok that he is just not the type if person I choose to have in my life? Am I really the bad guy?


Anonymous Jed said...

It doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. I mean if you don't like someone you don't like someone you know. But keep in mind there is always two sides to every story!

6/22/2005 8:57 AM


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